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ADHD-friendly reminders for the people you love

Forgetting a birthday is not a character flaw. It is a prompt problem, and prompts can be fixed.

Caring and remembering are different skills

You can think about someone constantly and still miss their birthday. Dates slip out of mind unless something puts them back in front of you at the right moment.

What actually helps

  • Reminders days ahead, not just on the day
  • One place for every date, so nothing lives in your head
  • One tap to send a message, with no searching for the contact
  • No guilt-heavy streaks or notifications to catch up on

Do it once, then forget it safely

Add a person and their date in about twenty seconds. After that the reminder does the remembering for you, which is the whole point.

Frequently asked

Why do I forget birthdays even though I care?

Remembering dates relies on working memory and prompts, not on caring. If your brain does not surface the date at the right moment, an outside reminder is the reliable fix.

What makes a reminder ADHD-friendly?

It arrives ahead of time, it is hard to ignore, and it removes steps. One tap to message the person beats a long to-do list.

Can I set several reminders for one date?

Yes. Early notice gives you time to prepare, and a closer one catches you on the day.

Is Cherishly free?

The free plan holds up to ten people forever. Cherishly Plus is for larger circles.

Try it with one person

Add the birthday you are most afraid of missing. It takes about twenty seconds, and the free plan holds up to ten people forever.

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